Dating Strategies and Tactics

1. You have to go after the one you want and then win them over. Be a friend - show attention, understanding, acceptance, and appreciation.
2. Satisfy emotional needs- show interest and listen to them. Spark a romantic emotion. Romance is a combination of hope with some doubt and it adds up to passion. People want what they can't have.
3. The third part of love is respect. It is earned through your actions. You must show an independent and confident personality. You can live with them or without them. You are in no hurry and aren't desperate.
4. You really have to date several people at once. It will make you look like a great catch. When you have multiple options, anyone who wants to be with you will work much harder. Instead of you doing the chasing, they will be chasing you. This takes the pressure off of yourself. You really want to date a few people anyway before jumping from one long term relationship to another.
Dating Strategies to keep in mind:
You must be happy with yourself before you will have success. Be kind to yourself and turn off the negative thoughts. You can change what you can and forget the rest. Don't worry about things you can't change. If you can't change them, all the worry in the world wont do any good.
Set some goals and write them down. You must make a plan with a clear path you want to follow.
You must set aside a night each week to get out of the house. Go where others gather. Check the paper for ideas and get out there. How many people have you met at your house? Force yourself to go out anyway. It is only one night a week, you can still sit on the couch the other six nights. You aren't

going to find new people unless you actually go out.There are single and available people all over the place. Nearly every place you go, has single people if you LOOK. Start simple don't go after the hottest person(too much pressure). Talk to the average person, get a phone number and move on. It really is a simple two step process. Meet and greet, a short conversation with eye contact and then say Great meeting you, but I have got to run; could I get your number? The Key is to RELAX. The more you do this the easier it gets.
Take the initiative and be the first to show interest in them. It shows confidence. You are only trying to get that first date. Don't start fretting about your wedding and future children just yet. Keep it simple. But you must do it yourself, no one will do it for you. Don't let an opportunity pass by, get that phone number and go from there.
Rejection is part of the dating game. Don't take it personal, not everyone is going to want to date you. They may not be dating at all right now. You never know unless you ask. Don't be afraid of looking foolish, we all look foolish all the time. Use positive reactions in the face of rejection. You aren't worried if they say no. You asked and that is the most important thing. One more no means you didn't waste your time and money on someone who isn't even interested. Plus you are just closer to finding the one who is interested. It is all practice and will make you a master at dating that much quicker.

What Really Makes You Nervous Around Women

Here are a few simple tips that will help you deal with it. Do you feel anxious whenever you talk to a woman? Symptoms like fidgeting, not being able to maintain eye contact, gulping in fear, becoming dry-mouthed, being overly nice, tense facial muscles and laughing uneasily at all her jokes are symptoms of getting too nervous.Your priority when first interacting with a woman is to make her feel relaxed around you. You’ll find this extremely difficult to do if you are nervous, so here are some insights on overcoming nervousness around women.

Maintain eye contact: If a man is unable to hold eye contact with a woman and looks away first, she won’t like it and feel uncomfortable. That is not attractive to women. You may be thinking, “Should I stare her down during interactions?” Not at all. If your eyes do meet, you should be comfortable enough to hold the eye contact. However, it shouldn’t be a stare.
Smile can do wonders: An endearing sort of smile can actually do the magic for you. From afar, your smile can communicate things like you are friendly, social, humble and interested to talk to the lady.
Clam and composed: A simple way of overcoming nervousness is to slow down your thoughts and movements, and behave in a relaxed manner. Control your anxiety and do not try to do things fast and in a haphazard way.
Check your body language: To overcome nervousness is changing the way you think about yourself and how you use your body (i.e. tone of voice, confident body language, etc).
Talk it out: Start a discussion on the subject both of you like. This is no rocket science and all it requires is an initiative from your end. This will help you to break the ice and then both of you can enjoy a casual conversation.
Make an effort to follow the dos and don’ts the next time you’re out in public with a woman, and you’ll see the difference.

Weird Things Men Like In Women

Men are crazy. And they get crazier when they see you approach him in those red pumps and skinny jeans with a baggy and casual tee in style and confidence.
Although there are a thousand things which make your irresistible, here are the top most unbelievable ones:

1. No make-up: Oops. Sorry girl. There's a great chance that your guy hasn't even noticed your smokey eyes or the new bronzer on your face. Save money and turn him on!

2. Lingerie that doesn't match : And you though you should pair your lacy, satin purple panties with a purple bra? Show him that you are unprepared and yet give in to his desires and make yourself hotter!

3. Wit : You thought it was all about physical contact? Crack a joke or flash your smile and he's sure to get wooed! Tip: It's better still if you are game even for jokes that are played on you. And why not? It just proves how self-assured you are.

4. Curvy is sexy: He doesn't like flat abs and zero sizes. Men love love-handles.

5. Intelligence, confidence, emotional maturity and sexual openness : Flaunt your real self (sans the gloss), support him when he is down, talk dirty and show your sensual attitude, and girl, you've got him!

6. Wearing a baggy tee to bed: Stay casual and he'll be more comfortable in your company. Don't intimidate him by being prim always or sounding like a know-it-all.

7. Unkempt hair: Whoa, why get prim and proper when your man likes your bed-hair or smudged kohl eyes?

8. Eye contact: Make yourself irresistible by looking at his eyes and putting across your point. Don't be shy.

How To Break Silence After A Fight With Your Beloved

If you are feeling your tongue-tied to make the first move to make up after a fight? you are really not alone in this situation, its very common problem.

Here’s what may help

Once flaring tempers calm down, are you and your partner often engulfed in silence, simply waiting for the other one to break it? Well, many couples feel tongue-tied to break the ice; in the silence their heads are spinning with guilt, and if only egos could be easy to set aside, they can’t wait to hug and make up.

Here are some tips that can help you take the first step, that makes one the real winner in the fight.

Start with writing

If talking to your partner after an argument doesn’t come to you no matter how much to push yourself, then start by penning down your feelings. Pick up colourful post-its, and write ‘sorry’, ‘I love you’, and whatever else you wish, and watch him melt. This is your first lesson to make the first move.

Entice with aroma

If cooking is your thing, then head to the kitchen. Cook up his/her favourite meal. Even if you aren’t an expert, the fact you took the effort to make something for him/her after a tiff will land you a hug and kiss instantly, and maybe a lot more.

Talk yourself into it

You need to give yourself a shrink talk. Wanting to be right in an argument is the easiest way to keep the fight going. So, when you know you want him/her, why hold yourself back. Maybe counting all the good things about him/her will ignite your motor to speak out the words you mean. Start with one heartfelt, meaningful sentence, and you’ll realise there’s no need for anymore words at all.

Are You a Person of Substance or Pretense?

Do you value style more than substance? Are you just loud and no melody?
Most people these days have devoted their time, energy and money in showing off. Their lives revolve on being someone who they are not. They become so absorbed trying to live the lifestyle to which they do not belong. They love to be seen even though there is nothing to see (in them).
They love to be shocking to get attention. They are like colorful balloons. They look pretty on the outside but all air in the inside.
These people seem to have everything except themselves. In their pretending they have forgotten who they really are. They have come to be ashamed of their past life, friends and mostly their past selves. They will desperately protect their status quo even if their actual status is a big K.O.
But these pretenders cannot escape themselves in the end. Their shallow ways of life will soon evaporate. And then, they will only be left with themselves, their real selves. They will have to look at the man in the mirror whom they hate and deny.
On the contrary, a person of substance is a person who does not pretend. He knows who he is, no more no less. He is joyful of his strengths and aware of his weakness. He tries to improve himself, but he does it based on reality. He does not change his “acting”, but he changes his being. The more he changes himself for the better, the more people respect him. He does not need to pretend to be someone who is not because he knows it is useless.
A person of substance does not try to win the approval of others. But others try to win his approval. He does not have the desire to shock and awe others. He knows that silent waters run deep.
Stop pretending.
Be yourself.
Be your better self.

Things Men Should Know About Women

1. Only 30% of women reach orgasm on every sexual act

What conclusion can be drawn from here? That 70% of women don’t even know how to or don’t even struggle to get there. No? They have sex just to be done and while they’re doing it they’re thinking if they look fat, if their hair is ok, if they shout too loud or if they don’t shout at all, what they have to do tomorrow, what’s in the fridge and all other shits that can pass trough a woman’s brain. Nothing about what is really happening there, because if they had done this they probably knew that the only purpose of having sex is to get to an orgasm, not to think of the shopping list for the next day. Next…

2. 50% of women have simulated orgasm at least once in life

I don’t want to ruin your self image but I can tell you for sure that at least half of your sex partners have lied you. Don’t worry yet, it isn’t your fault. You had your orgasm, you’ve done your part. They are just too stupid to understand why they are there. Women want to be equal with men but half of them are reducing themselves to a man’s pleasure achievement tool. Statistics don’t lie.

3. 3% of women sneeze at the thought of sexual fantasies

This is too funny to be true. And when you think that… the other 97% apparently get all wet when they think about it it’s even better. The 3% don’t know what they’re missing, eh? Too bad that when they are truly able to accomplish their fantasies, they’re missing that part. This is the cruel truth: some of them get to the pleasure while some will just settle for a sneeze.

4. Older women appreciate sex more than younger ones

Well at how rare it is at that age, no wonder. And dad’s soldiers have a limited term of use, no? But this is the main reason why we love MILFs. If she’s hot and pretty desperate, she’s gonna do it with whoever has the guts to ask her properly. And she’ll teach him a lesson too. Or more. We all have our half-fuck-mate out there, somewhere.

5. 80% of women are sure that all men cheat

Do you realize that, in the entire world, there are still 20% naive women?! No problem for us, the best enemy is the one that you don’t know of.

6. Fat women have less sex

And because their sexual energy isn’t released, they eat even more. And they get even fatter, so the chances of having sex are less day by day. Dammit, it’s a vicious circle. We will soon be eaten by enormous women. Save the mankind and go fast and have sex with the first fat woman you will see. Together we can make it!

7. 80% of women gain weight after their wedding

So… take a better look at her now because you won’t see it like this again after. Or just, don’t get married. This also shows why there are 40% mistresses in the world.

8. Very few women want to implement their sexual fantasies

Well, who would want sex with a Latin guy on a Spanish beach, while troubadours are singing in the background? I mean, a little privacy, please… And if they will really manage to do this, they probably won’t enjoy the moment since they aren’t capable of it. They’ll just think that the troubadours would look better in pink suits and that Latin guy could be a celebrity or maybe it should have been an Italian beach and so on. Who cares? Most women are too shy to share their fantasies, and they’re even more scared of implementing those fantasies in life.

9. Women are able to have sex out of pity or revenge

“I don’t have nickels to give you but take some sex.” Yes, especially the revenge sex gotta be a good one. “You mother f#$@%g pig! Take this to see if you’ll be able to comment again!!” Revenge sex is great.

Inspirational Story of Abraham Lincoln

Before he became one of the greatest president of the United States of America, Lincoln suffered alot of trials and defeat. Yet after all he had been through, he pressed foward. And after that, everything is history.

1809 Born February 12
1816 Abraham Lincoln's family was forced out of their home and he needed to work to support his family.
1818 His mother passed away
1828 His sister dies
1831 A business venture failed
1832 He ran for the State Legislature. He lost.
1832 In the same year, he also lost his job. He decided he wanted to go to law school but couldn't get in.
1833 He borrowed money from a friend to start a business. By the end of the year, he was bankrupt.
1834 He ran for the State Legislature again. This time he won.
1835 The year was looking better as he was engaged to be married. Unfortunately, his fiancee died and he was grief stricken.
1836 This was the year he had a total nervous breakdown and for 6 months was bedridden.
1836 He sought to become Speaker of the State Legislature. He was defeated.
1840 He sought to become Elector. He was defeated.
1842 Marries Mary Todd. They have 4 boys but only one would live to maturity.
1843 He ran for Congress. He lost.
1846 He ran for Congress again. He won and moved to Washington.
1848 He ran for re-election to Congress. He lost.
1849 He sought the job of Land Officer in his home state. He didn't get the job.
1850 His son, Edward, dies.
1854 He ran for the Senate of the United states. He lost.
1856 He sought the Vice Presidential nomination at a national convention. He got less than 100 votes.
1858 He ran for the Senate again. He lost again.
1860 Abraham Lincoln is elected President of the United States.

To Love or To Lust?

Love is one of the misused words in our vocabulary. In effect its real meaning has become vague. Saying “I love you” and “I love pizza” seems to be same to many.
Could it be that we treat people as pizzas?
To love, real love or agape is to give oneself to the other for the sake of the other. To lust is to treat people like pizzas.  To lust is to use people for your own selfish desire for pleasure. What do you do when pizza satisfies your craving? It becomes a leftover. And sooner or later it gets thrown away.
Many people feel that way.
Thrown away.
Lust uses people for selfish reasons and desires. After the reasons or desires are met, the person is discarded. And sadly we live in a culture that promotes using each other, just look at the advertising industry.
Love, the real thing is on the opposite side of lust. Love wants what is the good of the other. It does not use the other to benefit oneself.  Love looks at the eyes of the beloved. Lust is trapped in his own ego, thinking how to use the other person.
Once I heard that as long as two people are in the agreement in using each other, it is alright. But it does not change the fact that you are being used and you are using another person. And people were not made to be used; we were made to be loved.
To live a life of lust is to live a life of emptiness.  Only real love can truly satisfy us.
Love and lust cannot exist with each other for the reason that love cannot wait to give while lust cannot wait to take.
How does this agape looks like?

So what is your choice? To love or to lust?

Are You Stuck In the Past? Or Are You Anxious About the Future?

Are you living in the past, present or future?
Many of us are burdened, if not caught up with our past. More than the consequences of our past actions, we let the memory of the past drag us down. We like to hit the rewind button in our memory and lick the wounds of long ago. We open up one painful memory and then a sudden flood of other unpleasant memories comes rushing in. And downward spiral we go.
We spend most of our time entertaining our bitterness, pains and disappointments of yesterday. We even spend countless hours just imagining the day we will get our vindication or even vengeance from past hurts. As we waste our time dwelling in our past, our present is wasted as well. And the sad thing is that our today is our tomorrow’s yesterday. Wasting the present now is just adding up to our wasted past. And the vicious cycle continues.
Many of us are also so anxious about our future. While our bodies reside in the present moment, our mind has time traveled years from now. We spend much time being worried and gloomy to things that has not happened yet. We are so absorbed in the “What Ifs” that we forget the “What nows?”
Our present also affects our future very much. To have a better tomorrow is to have a better today. Our actions today will greatly affect our future, good or bad. To waste your time today being anxious about tomorrow is to waste the opportunity to improve your tomorrow.
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
To live life is to live in the present moment. The past is dead and the future is yet unborn. The key to healing the past and having a hopeful future lies to what you will decide to do NOW. Now is the only thing we really got. If you waste the present moment by dwelling in the past or being anxious about the future, you end up loosing everything.
The past belongs to God’s mercy, the future to His Providence and the present to His Love. To live in the present moment is to accept and experience God’s love here and now.
Today is your tomorrow’s past.
The way you live today will make your tomorrow better or bitter.
Today is where you are.
Are you there?

Social Network Addicts Are Loneliest People

A national survey by Relationships Australia has indicated that Generation Y, who always stays connected with others through social networking sites, is the loneliest generation.
According to the Relationships Indicators Survey 2011, 30 per cent of Australians aged 25 to 34 told the survey that they were frequently lonely, far more than any other age group. The second loneliest were the young adults – with 19 per cent of them claiming to be frequently lonely.
The survey, which polled 1204 adults this year, highlighted connections between online life and loneliness. The frequently lonely were much more likely to try online dating, and to use several forms of social media (particularly Facebook ) to maintain friendships.
Melbourne University philosopher Damon Young said Generation Y is lonelier because people don’t know how to be alone.
“People who are constantly connected electronically find being alone very difficult, so it’s not that these people are necessarily more alone; it’s that they feel it more keenly. I would guess that older people who haven’t been continually saturated with information are actually able to stand their own company,” the Sydney Morning Herald quoted Young as saying.

Cheating on Best Friend

When cheating comes into a relationship, people tend to expect their partner to cheat on them with someone at the work place or that they met somewhere out. People tend to ignore the fact that most partners wind up cheating on their partner’s best friend. How can this be?

Well, it might turn out that your best friend isn’t much of a friend after all and will be the most likely person to stab you in the back. Think about it, you spend all the time you have with your best friend when you are not with your girlfriend. After your girlfriend is comfortable with your best friend, you three hang out a lot together. They tend to get closer, not realizing they are flirting with each other.

The biggest thing that reaches out to your partner’s craving to cheat on you with your best friend is that she knows when you don’t treat her well or if things don’t work out, she will have someone to go to and fall back on. She knows someone will be there for her and take care of her when you hurt her.

The moral of this story is that you should not let too much time being spent between your girlfriend and your best friend. Avoid letting them get too close. Also, and most importantly, treat your girlfriend will respect and treat her very well with the kindness she deserves.

What Is Success?

Our society places so much emphasis on "making it", and we assume that any failure is bad. We try our best to avoid failure in our daily life. Is failure really so bad for us? No, what we don't always recognize is that what looks like failure may prove beneficial in the future. On the contrary, some times success can be destructive for us in long run.

    The danger of too early success is particularly acute. There was a girl who could write perfect calligraphy of China when she is primary school student. While the rest  were playing, bicycling and reading, she practise calligraphy everyday after school and all the weekend. Her name often appeared in the papers and radio in our school, and the rest envied her glamorous life. Years later, she failed to pass the examination of collage. She spoke bitterly of those early triumphs. “I never prepared myself for anything, but calligraphy of china.” Too earlier success block her step to bigger goal.

    Success that comes too easily is also damaged. One of my high middle school classmates, who always is the top student in our class. He is a talent in the eyes of his parents and us. After entering the collage, he faced the competition which he has never run into before. He doesn't stand head and shoulders above others anymore. He was not excellent as he used to anymore. He was disappointment and annoyed with his situation. He paid more his attention on score and the others opinion, but the collage work itself. He lost his way. Too easy success cover his mind to overcome difficulty in the future of his life.

    Success is also harmful when it is achieved at the cost of total quality of an experience. Successful student sometimes become so obsessed with grades that they never enjoy their school years. They are never branch out into attempting new areas, because they don't want to risk their grade-point average. Success which encourage repetition of old behaviors, is not nearly as good a teacher as failure. You can learn from a mess party how to organize it next time, from an ill-chosen book what to look for in a second. Even a failure that seems totally can prompt fresh thinking, a total change of your dream. 

    Observing the histories all over the world. Thousands of stories told us this truth. Failure is not always bad as we thought it is. Meanwhile, success is not always good as we expected. In particular, it comes too early and too easy

The Worst Education System

The Education system in India is one of worst education system that you can ever have. We give a lot of importance to education, ones future depends on how highly qualified he/she is. We have to study subjects that we are not even interested in and which will never help us in our lives. In a good education system one should be able to gage his/her capability at an early age and educate himself/herself accordingly to his/her interests in life.

What do people actually mean when they say that someone is well educated?

Here we have books written by different authors that we have to study and every individual can decide which author’s book he/she wants to study. My question is “Why should we believe the authors who have written these books?” Is it just because a bunch of people sitting in a room decided that this is important and should be added to the education system?

So what it all comes down to is how good a person is at replicating the knowledge in those books! Is that the real meaning of being well educated or intelligent? This brings me down to a conclusion to say that parroting a book is equivalent to intelligence.

No Thinkers only Parrots

The people we call graduates are the ones who have been excellent at replicating the knowledge they have got from books. Is this the real meaning of intelligence? At campus interviews it’s not always the top rankers who get selected into the best companies, ever thought why? This is because companies look for people who can think out of the box, come up with new ideas, etc. These people are very rare nowadays. The schools and colleges that we have right now do not allow student to be innovative.  It’s all about completing the syllabus! Every school and college will deny this, however this is a fact! This is a fight that every literate person has to fight. With all the competition in todays world people have forgotten to follow their passion! Everyone wants to or is made to study just for the sake of graduating. Let’s face the facts not everyone works in the stream they have studied; Ever thought why? Mukesh Ambani was educated at Abaay Morischa School in Mumbai and completed his graduation with a bachelor`s degree in chemical engineering from the UDCT, now known as the Institute of Chemical Technology, Mumbai. Do you think he has done justice to his degree?

On the other hand we have people like Albert Einstein who never went to school, Dhirubhai Ambani was not educated Michael Dell, Mark Zuckerberg who were college drop outs. These are the most successful people that we know of. 

No offense intended to anyone, I am a student myself. All I think and want you all to know is don’t always replicate; Innovate, let the people around you know you for “your own” ideas and not your educational qualifications.

 I’ll leave you with this thought “Thinkers are the ones who can make changes for a better tomorrow not parrots”.

                                                                                                                                        

                                                                                                                                        Vicky Chaudhary.

Men Like Women With Naughty Looks

Men are attracted towards women with sexy looks, according to a new survey.
And a great cleavage is the next best thing to turn them on.
However, when it comes to women, just a simple smile is enough to get them attracted to men.
In the survey, it was found that women were also attracted to men with a good sense of humour, even though they were unattractive.
The survey led by popcorn makers Butterkist also revealed that stockings and suspenders, knee-high boots and short skirts also featured on the list of what men couldn’t resist about women.
Thoughtfulness, generosity, and intelligence along with affectionate attitude made it to the list of biggest turn-ons for women.
“We wanted to get under the skin of what it is that makes someone actually irresistible,” the Daily Express quoted a Butterkist spokesman as saying.
“We found it’s a rare combination of things, both mental and physical,” he added.
One in 10 admit having never met someone they could not take their eyes off.
One in five said they would make any excuse to spend as much time with the man or woman of our dreams.

Top Myths About Men’s Body

If you shave your hair comes back faster and thicker

“If that were true, we’d have a cure for male pattern baldness,” Carroll said.
Stubble may look darker and coarser because it has not yet been exposed to sun and other wearing elements.
Once it grows in, it looks identical to the hair that was shaved away.

Men think about sex every 7 seconds
“That is as many times as we breathe everyday. Nobody has that type of mental stamina,” Live Science quoted Carroll as saying.

In one of the most comprehensive surveys about sexual habits in the United states, completed by Edward Laumann and colleagues in 1994, 43 per cent of men reported thinking about sex not even once a day, but rather somewhere between a couple times a week to a couple times a month.

Single guys have better sex lives than married guys

Conventional wisdom says married men get nothing but slumber in their bedrooms, while single studs are “closing the deal”. But it is actually those with the vows that are getting it on.
A study by the National Opinion Research Center found that husbands get lucky between 28 per cent to more than 400 per cent more often than bachelors, depending on their age.
And it is not a ho-hum roll in the matrimonial bed; not only are married women more likely to be orgasmic, married men also give and get more oral sex.

Semen is loaded with calories

According to Dr. Rachel Vreeman, also of Indiana University and Carroll’s co-author, seminal fluid is made up of water and nutrients such as vitamin C, calcium and magnesium.
It also contains the sugar fructose but only 5 to 7 calories worth per serving.
“It is unlikely to create a diet issue, but this should not be used in an argument for whatever,” Live Science quoted Vreeman as saying.

Men with big feet also have big penises

It is true that the development of penises and toes (as well as clitorises and fingers) are influenced by the same gene. But the length of one does not predict the length of the other.
In a study of more than 3,000 men, no correlation was found between the self-reported size of feet and that of the crown jewels.
Another study, headed by Jyoti Shah at St. Mary’s Hospital in London, compared foot size to carefully measured privates (all 104 penises were stretched to their longest length for consistency.) No correlation was found.

Pick-up Lines You Should Never Use

1 ‘Can I have your phone number? I seem to have lost mine.’  That’s just plain unimaginative. Trust us, the girl isn’t even going to give you a second look if you come up with that.
2 ‘Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again.’ She’ll probably ask you to walk by again… and then keep walking. Don’t even think about using this one.
3 ‘Great legs, what time do they open?’ Okay that’s good as a PJ, but in all likelihood it’ll earn you a slap from the one you use it on.
4. ‘You must be tired because you’ve been running through my head all night.’  Are you serious? This one belongs to the last century, and should have been left there.
5. Can I buy you a drink or do you just want the money?  This is the time when not just the girl, but even her friends will beat you up. Think twice even before you think of this line.
6.’ I’m a raindrop and I’m falling for you.’ Do you see her on the floor rolling with laughter…
7. ‘Remember me? Oh, that’s right, I’ve met you only in my dreams.’ She’s going to ask you keep dreaming, dude.
8. ‘You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.’  Flattery is still the best way to win brownie points, but with this gem, don’t be surprised if she blows her fuse.
9. ‘My love for you is like diarrhoea. I just can’t hold it in.’  And after that she’ll be running to the loo to throw up. So don’t even think about using this one.
10. ‘You want me. I can smell it.’ Don’t be surprised if she calls you a dog after you sprout such a gem.

Prevent a Man from Cheating

Respect him. Listen to him and what he has to say, don’t nag him in public or when friends are around, and do not poke fun at his beliefs. Try not to hurt his morale or dignity. Make him feel proud and show respect. As long as you respect him, he will respect you and not cheat on you.

Show that you love him every day. Even if you argue, you can still express your love for him each and every day. Prepare breakfast and dinner for him, kiss him and hug him, tell him you love him, and find your own special ways to show him that you are there for him.

Make him believe in trust. Trust is the key to the entire relationship. Although it might be a not to savvy subject to talk about, let him know that if he cheats on you that the trust will be broken and impossible to bring back. You don’t need to threaten him, just make him realize that the trust exists between you and him and that cheating will ruin the entire relationship.

Do things together. I am sure you both have many fond memories of when you first started dating. Why stop now? Keep making sweet loving memories like going on a vacation together or achieve one of your shared dreams. These things will remind him about how great your relationship is and will make him very happy. It will be very hard for a man to cheat on the one who makes him happy.

Don’t accuse him of cheating(THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT) . If you don’t have any hard evidence that he is cheating, then don’t bring it up or accuse him. Don’t argue with him because you just have a hunch or a baseless suspicion. This could annoy him to the point that he would want to make your suspicion a reality.

There are many men who are just naturally unfaithful and cheaters and if you have a partner like this, then it might be impossible or hopeless to change him. However, there are also men who will always be faithful and strive to be faithful. In this case, you don’t have anything to worry about. If he has cheated on you once, twice, or even three times, then you might want to consider moving on as you need to keep your self respect and with time, you will find someone who you deserve. 

More Types of Women to Avoid

1. Putting you on hold 
Say for example you go out on a date and it was wonderful, you had a good time, and everything was just perfect. You go to bed with a nice smile on your face excited to see her again. You call her the next day and get no answer. You try again in a few days, still, no answer. Finally you hear back from her a week later and she makes up some excuse why she couldn’t return your calls. You go out again and this date was even better than the last, but again, she disappears for another week. Chances are she is out banging some other guy while you are put on hold.

2. Gold Diggers
This one is an obvious type of woman to stay away from as she needs your money but not your heart. You will lose every single penny you have on this girl and still, she won’t love you. She wants luxurious items and expects you to buy them for her simply because she has a nice smile and a pretty face.

3. Tease
This type can either be classified as a tease or an attention grabber, or even just a free drink getter. This type of girl will flirt with you all night, you will dance, and it will seem obvious where the night is heading to. You get her many drinks because what the hell, you are getting lucky tonight anyway, right? At the end of the night, you ask her for her number and she denies your request and walks away and you go home alone, broke, and angry. This kind of girls is very easy to fall for so stay alert and be strong. Just like the gold diggers, this one will get what she wants just because she has a pretty face and a sexy body – the exception is you will never get a chance to see it.

4. Feminist
Although women’s rights are a good thing, some women take this matter a bit overboard and become feminist extremists. They think every single problem on this planet is caused by men and will stop at nothing until women dominate the universe. If you hear the words “all men think with their penises” then this is a good sign that this one is going to be fighting for her gender in a sex war and will do anything she can to control you.

5. Bitch
The bitchy type of girl doesn’t mean someone who is annoying or asks for a lot of things, but instead someone who just doesn’t know how to have a good time and wants to make you suffer with her. She is against the world and she feels the world is against her. She opens her mouth and nothing but dark, depressing, or angry words come out of it. Now she has you to help her fight the battle against the world so avoid it and get out.

Some More Types of Men to Avoid

Not ready to commit 
Some men will be emotionally unavailable and say the words “I am just looking for a casual fling” or “I am not ready to settle down”. Some might not ever want to take the relationship to the next level even after dating for a long time. If he has never had a serious relationship and makes fun of his married friends, or if he doesn’t want to open up to you, he is not ready for a serious relationship and you don’t need this kind of guy.

Too nice
Of course we should want to have a nice guy, but too nice is too bad. Women who have dated those bad boys in the past might be attracted to a guy who is too nice, but eventually it’ll get boring and will not work. The man needs to be respectful and not act like a slave to a woman, otherwise be prepared for constant apologies as you take your anger out on him. If he gives you presents for no reason, constantly touching you in public, gives you embarrassing nicknames, then you should stay away otherwise you will just become annoyed and angry.

Married Man
This is absolutely the worst kind of guy to get involved with. Either he will leave his wife for you and then you have to think what if he does the same to you or he will of course choose his wife over you any day. A break up will never be easy with a married man and especially if there are children involved.

No future
If for example you have your heart set on having many kids and the guy doesn’t want any kids, cut your losses even if the chemistry is great because you have no future together. If he is a devout Catholic and you are Jewish and have different morale and religious values, it might be hard to sustain a long term relationship. Make sure you have the same morale values with the guy otherwise nothing will ever work out and it might be difficult to compromise.

Roaming Eye
A man should make you feel like the only woman in the room. If he has a wandering eye, crazy about internet porn, or has a history of heating, then don’t expect him to change. If he is always saying sexual comments about other women or if he is checking out different women all the time, there is a chance he might cheat on you in the future.

There are many men out there and many decent guys who will make you happy and provide a lovely, long lasting relationship. You just have to find the right one and sort out those who will never make you happy.

Things Not to Ask Your Boyfriend

1. How many girls he has been with before you

You really don’t want to know how many women came before you. Nothing good can come from this topic. If it is higher than you expected, then you are going to start feeling like another notch on his belt. If it is unlikely lower than you expected, you will probably wonder what’s wrong with him. It’s good to know though about sexual history in order to prevent diseases, but unless you want to feel insecure, it’s better to not know his number just as he probably doesn’t want to know yours either.

2. If he thinks about his exes when he is with you
Have you thought about an ex while you were dating him? Chances are that he also thought about an ex as well while dating you, but this isn’t a bad thing. After all, you are with him now anyway. Men compare their current girlfriend to their past ones in order to judge what is good and what is bad about the relationship, but again, knowing if your boyfriend thinks about his ex or not will just make you feel insecure.

3. How do you rank among his exes
Just like the other mentioned information, this again will make you feel insecure. The main thing to focus on is that you and him are together now. Ask him what he likes and wants in a relationship and pay close attention to his answer.

4. What does he do when you are not around
You might want to know about some things that he does when you are not around, but you shouldn’t be wondering for example like how much porn he watches or what types he looks at. These questions are counterproductive. Unless if he is a sex or porn addict or if you have a religious objection, you shouldn’t bring it up.

5. What do his parents really think of you
Parents are hard to please. They have seen many different women come and go from their son’s life. You shouldn’t discuss whether or not your parents liked an ex better than you because regardless, couples get married even if their parents approve of it or not. You are dating him, not his parents.

12 Baisc Types Of Women

1. Ms. Gold-Digger

ADVANTAGES
a. You have some one to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your friends jealous.
d. She makes you look good.

DISADVANTAGES
a. When you get broke she’ll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your rich friend comes up she’ll be on his arm the next day.

2. Ms. Freak (secret lover)

ADVANTAGES
a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She’ll try everything more than once.
c. You’re never unsatisfied.
d. She’ll do all the things your girl won’t do.
e. She doesn’t mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.

DISADVANTAGES
a. Eventually, b/c she’s a female, she’ll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she’s your “main”.
c. She messes around with your friend and act like you are in the wrong for telling her that she’s a freak.
d. Eventually her stuff gets old. And you need a replacement

3. Ms. Independent

ADVANTAGES
a. You don’t have to worry about buying her anything. She’s already got it.
b. She’s intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She’s great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She will continuously let you know that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say screw you and get a dildo.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.

4. Ms. Dyme

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a “model”
e. Gets turns you on whenever you see her.
f. All the girls envy her, but she doesn’t care.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She’s superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She’s probably dumb and if she’s not, her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up b/c every guy is gonna try to get her.

5. Ms. Tomboy

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s cool and laid back.
b. She’ll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She’s easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She’s a diamond in the rough.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She’ll remind you too much of your friends.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.

6. Ms. Rebel

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She’s down for you. She’ll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She strong and a true individual.
d. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She doesn’t know how to act in public.
b. Your mama can’t stand her.
c. You get into it with her every other second.
d. She’s willing to fight another girl looking at you or her PERIOD.
e. Her hair colors, tatoos, and or piercings are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal.

7. Ms. Good Girl

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s always there for you.
b. She’s intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She’s an A or B situation either:
A. You’re not gonna get any until ya’ll are married or
B. She said she’s never done – she said she’s never tried – she’s sitting there telling a straight out lie.

8. Ms. Main

ADVANTAGES
a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You’ve been with her forever.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick you out.

9. Ms. Psycho

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s fun and spontaneous.
b. She’s down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true, so everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.

DISADVANTAGES
a. Don’t you break up with her. She will stalk you.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Messin’ with her can make your life a living hell.

10. Ms. I have a Man

ADVANTAGES
a. She may have a man but she’ll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She’ll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She’ll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she’ll get her man to come beat you up.
d. She’ll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.

11. Ms. Tease

ADVANTAGES
a. She’s tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She’s intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every guy wants her b/c she’s so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.

DISADVANTAGES
a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)

12. MRS. RIGHT

ADVANTAGES
a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme, but she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother’s.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She’s always there for you, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She’s not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her; she’s your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She’s always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But she’s also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She’s nothing like any other girl you’ve met. She’s your woman.

DISADVANTAGE
a. You’ve probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other types that you let her go