REASON #1) She found another guy.
Well, this really isn't a reason the
way most guys think it is. You see, a woman doesn't want another guy if the one
she's with is doing the right things and challenging her.
(Mind you that we're assuming that the woman is stable and doesn't
have a major character flaw that leads her to cheating.)
I found out - the hard way - that a woman has NO problem cheating
on her boyfriend if she feels that he's not living up to his end of the deal.
Meaning, he isn't doing all the things the new guy is to make her feel unique
and attractive.
She will feel JUSTIFIED in cheating, in fact. She won't even see
it as cheating. She'll see it as self-preservation.
I'm not trying to make women out to be evil here because all they
are looking out for is love and care and the perfect person. Even most of the
guys do that same thing.
REASON #2) She's exceptionally smart and emotionally mature, and she realizes that you're not what she's looking for in a long term relationship.
The reality is that when I finally "got it" and understood that you can very easily get a woman so addicted to having you around (because you're giving her what no other guy seems to be able to, other than the unstable "bad boys" out there), you'll have the very real problem of women staying with you even when it's not a good match.
In other words a nice guy to roam around with not the one who they can settle down with.
REASON #3) You STOPPED doing all the things that got her attracted to you in the first place.
In other words, you let the attraction energy die out.
I could write books and books on this topic...
The fact of the matter is that guys typically put in a lot of energy to get things started with a woman, don't we?
We have to approach her (tell me that isn't agony...)We have to brave the fear of rejection...We have to get her number...We have to call her up and ask her out...We have to make the plans for the date...We have to keep escalating things until we can sleep with her...
Hey, that's a lot of work! But we don't mind because it's the thrill of the chase.
But after you've conquered her, this is typically where the average guy lets off that gas and expects the woman to take over. And many women DO take over...... for a time.
Eventually, though, she becomes resentful that she feels like SHE is doing all the work, and she starts to withdraw. Eventually, she'll either cheat, or she'll just break up with you.
Just remember, there's always a guy out there waiting to do whatever it is you stopped doing to attract your woman.
Look, I'm not saying a woman is justified here, but you have to be realistic. If you weren't doing your work at your job, would you REALLY be surprised if your boss came to you one day and said, "We're terribly sorry, but you haven't been doing your duties. We've found a replacement for you. You're fired."
AND THERE ARE MANY MORE REASONS ............. IT WILL NEVER END....
